So, how do you get successful access to another hole?
Whether or not access, is very much on the way you ask – as evidenced by the ten women who said yes to their husbands. Read on for the different scenarios that these men have convinced their wives.
He proposed boundaries
“My long-term friend asked me to try it, but I hesitated at first. He assured me he would stop immediately if I did not like it or if it would feel uncomfortable and because he wanted to try it just once, and if I hated we would never do it anally. He made it so that I had no reason to say no “- Mary, 26
He threw his charms in battle
“I was dating a man who was smart, charming and sincere. He made me think he was someone I could be a long time with and therefore I felt comfortable enough to let him try anal. It turned out that he just did for sex and he did it still with his ex-girlfriend, but I have no regrets. “- Kara, 24
It was our only choice
“I was drunk and horny and I really wanted to have sex with my boyfriend … but I was menstruating. When he came up with the idea to maybe try anal, I wanted him so badly that I said yes and I’ve enjoyed it immensely! “- Helena, 27
He talked me through
“When we tried for the first time, he talked me through it and it was super quiet and gently sweet to me. When we once had tried a few times, I began to really enjoy and I even had orgasms! We then incorporated it into our routine sex. “- Kristen, 24
We wanted to try something new
“I had a few years with my boyfriend and the sex was becoming a routine. When he suggested to try anal for once, I immediately took the opportunity to try something new with him. “- Kathleen, 29
He offered a reward
“My first boyfriend and I did so many things sexually that I totally did not realise that anal sex was something special. I thought it just usually on the menu. It was not embarrassed that he offered a firm back massage after anal sex. “- Sarah, 26
We talk a lot about
“I’m spontaneous and my partner knows this, so we are much talked about. We even did research on how best to start with it. By the time we were there started, I felt that I was an anal sex expert, even though I had never done it. “- Courtney, 29
We were incredibly drunk
“I’ve heard friends talking about anal sex, and almost all of them said that it is a lot less painful if you’re drunk. When my friend asked me if we would ever have anal sex, I see that I had been very drunk. Five tequila shots later I started anal my first time. “- Sabrina, 32
He was a doctor
“The only time I have had anal sex was during a one-night stand with a heart surgeon. I thought to myself, ‘if he knows how to do open heart surgery, he also knows how to have anal sex without annoying problems.’ “- Anya, 35
He did not do the “oops wrong hole ‘manoeuvre
“The first time I did it was with someone I did it regularly. I do not mind being a little adventurous and he asked me if I was sure open to try anal. He said he had done it before and he liked it, but he put not much pressure. I had previously tried the boys ‘oops wrong hole’ way and I appreciated that he was not a dick, but just asked. “- Rachel, 30
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